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So you want to be kidnapped?

So you want to be kidnapped?

  This weekend I have been invited to speak at Oz Kink Fest on the topic of kidnapping. Adult kidnapping as adrenaline experience enacting fantasy, I should clarify.  It's a...

So you want to be kidnapped?

  This weekend I have been invited to speak at Oz Kink Fest on the topic of kidnapping. Adult kidnapping as adrenaline experience enacting fantasy, I should clarify.  It's a...

The Violet Ray - 20th Century medical history & modern-day BDSM use

The Violet Ray - 20th Century medical history &...

For a person walking into a Dominatrix's dungeon, their eyes are typically met with all manner of large-scale dungeon bondage equipment. Cages, Medical bench, St Andrew's Cross, spanking bench, and...

The Violet Ray - 20th Century medical history &...

For a person walking into a Dominatrix's dungeon, their eyes are typically met with all manner of large-scale dungeon bondage equipment. Cages, Medical bench, St Andrew's Cross, spanking bench, and...

Designing an Education Salon

Designing an Education Salon

Victorian school room inspiration.     Sometimes I get the hardest gigs...(with sarcasm). I've just recently been brought on to convert a space into an Education Salon for teaching BDSM...

Designing an Education Salon

Victorian school room inspiration.     Sometimes I get the hardest gigs...(with sarcasm). I've just recently been brought on to convert a space into an Education Salon for teaching BDSM...

Mistress & Dominatrix training using 'The History & Arts of the Dominatrix'

Mistress & Dominatrix training using 'The Histo...

Above: Governess Elizabeth of London Dominatrix School Back when I was writing 'The History & Arts of the Dominatrix', I wanted to follow the history with a discussion of what...

Mistress & Dominatrix training using 'The Histo...

Above: Governess Elizabeth of London Dominatrix School Back when I was writing 'The History & Arts of the Dominatrix', I wanted to follow the history with a discussion of what...

More great reviews of 'The History & Arts of the Dominatrix'

More great reviews of 'The History & Arts of th...

I keep belatedly hearing about online reviews of my book, referencing various people in the fetish community and professional Dominatrices. So if you're wondering about the gap between when the...

More great reviews of 'The History & Arts of th...

I keep belatedly hearing about online reviews of my book, referencing various people in the fetish community and professional Dominatrices. So if you're wondering about the gap between when the...

"For most of history, Anonymous was a woman" (Virginia Woolf)

"For most of history, Anonymous was a woman" (V...

  In Virginia Woolf's 1929 essay, A Room of One's Own, Woolf noted, "For most of history, Anonymous was a woman". Her essay was based on a series of lectures...

"For most of history, Anonymous was a woman" (V...

  In Virginia Woolf's 1929 essay, A Room of One's Own, Woolf noted, "For most of history, Anonymous was a woman". Her essay was based on a series of lectures...